I first encountered the phrase “spouse acceptance factor” (also called “wife acceptance factor”) when reading through Gordon Meyer’s Smart Home Hacks. Apparently the term has been around since the 1970’s, with a more recent push to make it gender-neutral. Wikipedia provides a good definition:
The Spouse Acceptance Factor (SAF) is the playful estimation of the acceptance or refusal of a new acquisition or project by the significant other. It relies on the cliché that men are driven by a certain geekiness when it comes to acquisitions like home theater or PCs, disregarding the stereotypically female aspects of aesthetics, design and practical/financial considerations, let alone ease-of-use. The first known SAF reference was in a 1989 article about wives rebellion against “oversized loudspeakers.”
The following recipe shows one easy way to mitigate your significant other’s resistance by letting them control the Shion system as well (without co-opting your own computer).
Shion’s user interface is designed so that any user can walk up to it and begin controlling devices. While are certainly further improvements to make it even easier to use (and we are working on those), one problem that still remains is how to turn an interface that permits only one user at a time (in economic terms, rivalrous) into one that can be used by multiple users (e.g. one’s spouse) simultaneously.
If your spouse is also a Mac user, follow these steps to share with them control of your Shion system.
Step 1: On a working Shion system (one connected to a powerline controller), go to the Shion preferences and select the
Step 2: Click the
Share local devices... checkbox to turn your instance of Shion into a local server.
Step 3: On your spouse’s machine, install a fresh copy of Shion. Feel free to also install your license file to remove the 3 device limit.
Step 4: Launch Shion on your spouse’s computer. Go to the sharing preferences as you did in the first step. Select the
Look for shared devices... checkbox.
Step 5: In the main device window, your (non-controller) devices should appear in the list. Select any of them and use the interface to test that you can control your environment remotely. The snapshots should work as well.
Using this remote control mechanism, your spouse now has almost as much control as you. There are a two minor exceptions:
New devices cannot be added from your spouse’s computer.
New snapshots cannot be created from your spouse’s computer.
I believe that you will find that your spouse’s resistance to you augmenting your house with new switches, plugin modules, and other automated hardware will diminish as they get the hang of using the system themselves. With some luck (and the right spouse), you may find that they insist that you add more automation to your home when they discover that they can’t control some ransom device that you have yet to connect to Shion.